To avoid the flat look of finished embroidery and to have the three dimensional aspect, without puckering and damage to the threads, you should iron embroidered garments the following way:
Place a fluffy terry cloth towel on an ironing board.
Place the embroidery up-side down on the towel.
Press the iron on to the garment from the opposite side of the embroidery.
Lauri, you are absolutely right about the food :).
I love to embroider on iron-on cotton tearaway, to have a pucker-free embroidery. On very thin fabric I'm using 2 layers. Also, after ironing I'm not taking embroidery right away, but leaving it on the iron board to cool off. This way embroidered item stays the way I ironed it.
Beautiful, but I don't think I would let anyone near it with food! I admire how pucker-free your emb is.